(音乐美文)做一个受人尊重的网上人
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">上网归上网，千万不能误了正事，永远不能把业余当成主业。网络不能当饭吃，为了上网废寝忘食、昼夜奋战，只会损害你的健康。也不能为了上网，地板不拖，碗也不洗，置老公（老婆）孩子于不顾。网络，是你工作之余，放松心情的精神栖息之所，绝不能沉溺其中，不能自拔，要让网络成为我们学习的工具，而不是扼杀生命或青春幸福的罪魁祸首。若不能用之有度，沉醉不知归路，只会将自己沦为网络的奴隶。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">宁可无友也不交滥友。友不在多，贵在诚；友不论久，一日可喻千古；友不择时，一缘可益一世。对于那些只看重容貌不注重思想的人，或者出口成脏，低级下流的人，该屏蔽的屏蔽，该拉黑的就拉黑，绝不心慈手软，道不同则不相为谋，有缘即往无缘去，一任清风送白云。对于那些良师益友们，则要真诚相待，识缘惜缘才得真缘，将心比心才能交心。现实中如此，网络中亦如此。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">有空聊天时就上线，让朋友看到你，没空聊就隐身或设置忙碌离开，不要在线不理人，置朋友信息于不顾，那样很不礼貌。与朋友交流，不刨根问底，不打探隐私，不勉强朋友做不想做的事。网友就是网友，永远不要把它变成现实。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">视频，只对自己的家人或现实中的亲戚朋友开，不视频不是因为我长得不自信羞于见人，也不是我太小气封建保守，毕竟是网络，网络是虚拟的，既然友情是真诚的，那最好注重人的内涵，用纯心灵去沟通交流，不受其容貌、年龄及其他条件的影响，即便他是肢体不健全的，只要有共同语言共同爱好，在文字与音乐的感知间，在心与心的碰撞中，在共鸣与共振的心跳时，就悄悄地将友情传递。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">进别人博客空间，犹如踏进别人的家园，绝不可肆意妄为，在你听雅乐，赏美文，品境界，感心声时，在你与朋友之间产生共鸣时，不妨留下你的只言片语，稍作评论。千万不要招呼不打一个，便大肆剽窃，那是对他人的不尊重，也是对自己人品的玷污。虽然祖师教导过：“偷书不为窃，盗文不耻言”，但你从中受益了，说声谢谢也是不为过的。饮水思源，也许以后当你再去回味这篇美文时，已经不记得它是从哪里转来的，所以转载时，最好给主人留下你的足迹。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">博客空间绝不设限，拒人于千里之外。好东西大家分享，不要总转别人的东西，自己有心情时也可以释放出来与大家共享。与朋友分享快乐，你会加倍快乐，朋友分担你的痛苦，痛苦就会减少一半。要知道你随时可以进别人空间，而别人却被你拒之门外，那种滋味是不好受的，对人也是不公平的。而对于别人的设限，要抱一种理解宽容的心态去看待。有些故事需要与别人分享，而有些故事只能关起门来自己品味，要尊重别人的权利。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">网上事物千千万，要择其真善美而存之,博采众长，补己之短。只转载我喜欢的和对我有用的，绝不要为了所谓的人气，而转载一些自己不喜欢却能吸引众多眼球的粗俗不堪的东西，尤其是些咒人不转的日志，以免更多人受害。要取其精华，去其糟粕，力求健康向上，不断充实自己，做到既上网，则受益。</span>
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<div><span style="margin:0px;padding:0px;max-width:100%;color:rgb(0, 0, 0);text-shadow:rgb(204, 193, 217) 2px 2px 10px;box-sizing:border-box !important;word-wrap:break-word !important"><span style="font-size:24px;font-family:黑体">游戏，想玩时也可玩一下，但一定是偶尔，绝不是沉迷。既然玩，就要赢得起，输得起，切不可输了就指责与谩骂，虽说在网络中，人不见神情，言不闻语音，辱他人而不受其责，欺他人而不见其究，但网络终究是人的网络，其中也贯穿了人的觉悟与情愿。你的污言秽语，伤害的是他人的心灵，损坏的是自己的形象，玷污的是自己的人格。扰了大家的情趣，也破坏了快乐的氛围。</span>
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